Interview
An Interview With LeeAnn
A Former Sex Worker in Connecticut
Conducted by Avani Dholakia
LeeAnn worked as a prostitute in Bridgeport, CT from age eighteen to thirty-two. After summoning the courage to move on from prositution, she studied to become a nurse's aide. Soon, she was diagnosed with HIV. P.H. spoke with LeeAnn about her history as a sex worker and her life after contracting HIV/AIDS.
P.H.: When you were eighteen, what made you leave
home?
LeeAnn: When I ran away from home, I moved into a
house where the guys were looking for prostitutes in Waterbury,
and then moved to Bridgeport. For several years
after I left home I didn't have any contact with my family.
I left because of them, the abuse. They didn?t even
know that I was leaving. They went to work one day and
when they came home, I was gone. I knew that I had to
get out. At 18, I had no high school life, every time I did
something wrong, I was badly beaten.
P.H.: What is the worst memory that you have from your
father's abuse?
LeeAnn: You know, it was physical and verbal abuse?
beatings in front of people. We used to go camping and
if I did something wrong, he didn?t think twice to, you
know. Just always belittling me.
P.H.: After leaving home, was prostitution your first
source of income? Did you try any jobs before you became
involved in prostitution?
LeeAnn: I got involved with prostitution because the
money was real good. I didn't try anything else. But I
wasn't diagnosed while I was a prostitute. I had already
started nurse's aide training, and I found out that I was
HIV positive after I had stopped working as a prostitute.
P.H.: Do you ever blame your father for your involvement
in prostitution to support yourself?
LeeAnn: I don't blame him. I've been on my own since I was 18 years old and I am now 48. I've been on my own
for 30 years and I've had to learn to sink or swim. And
I swim.
P.H.: What inspired you to make the switch from prostitution
to becoming a nurse's aide?
LeeAnn: I was just tired of the lifestyle. Just tired of
it. I took out a student loan and took classes. I started
working as a nurse's aide, but it didn't last long. I had a
car accident. Someone rear-ended me and snapped everything
in my wrist -- I got on city welfare, which is
very little money.
P.H.: After the accident, how did you support yourself?
LeeAnn: I picked up work with a mentally handicapped
child in Milford. He was very hard to handle -- I was
taking care of him when I was diagnosed. I panicked
when I found out because I didn't know much about
HIV or anything. I panicked and told his mother. Well,
that turned out to be the worst idea of my life.
Shortly after that, I got a phone call one day. The girlfriend
of his younger sister at home said she saw me kissing
and fondling him all over... This whole thing proceeded
to get me arrested for sexual assault to the fourth
degree. I hired the attorney from hell... The person at
the home health care agency got me a new attorney and
told me not to worry about the fee. Now mind you, I was
just diagnosed with HIV and a few months later I had
to turn myself in for an arrest warrant. Usually a judge
doesn't overturn a decision, but this second attorney got
the judge to overturn his decision, but they still put me
on probation for two years. That put me under a lot of
stress.
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